I first met Nándor Kiss, the double bassist from Hódmezővásárhely, during my childhood as a folk dancer. He was a young adult, and I was a sensitive little kid. Nándi was funny, I was timid. He was always the center of attention, while I was that weird little boy whom only a few people seemed to understand—or even wanted to.
But Nándi smiled, and made others smile too. He kept smiling even when the others were already slapping the table in laughter at his stories. His sense of humor, knowledge, polymath spirit, and love for the folk revival scene of the ’80s and ’90s make him a model figure among that generation. He can write his own biography later, but for now, let’s just say this: in the ’80s and ‘90s, there would have been hardly any folk music in Hódmezővásárhely if it weren’t for Ancsa Sófalvy, Sára Kosahuba, and Nándor Kiss. For years, they were the only functioning folk band in town. After them came the flood—no new generation followed, and until the folk music school was established, we were essentially folk music importers in a town otherwise full of untapped musical talent.
Today, we’ve got Csürhe, Róna, Feri Gyöngyösi, camps, and more. It’d be great to get together for a folk music time-travel reunion. If you’re reading this, pass it on!
As the Folktone Trio (Ádám Rőmer, Tamás Ferencz, and Nándor Kiss), we returned home in February 2023 at the invitation of Ferenc Gyöngyösi. We gave a concert at Penna Club, which serves as the concert and dance house venue for the Fonó Club of Hódmezővásárhely. And after that… came the dance house. 😄
It felt strange. Half an hour before the concert, the room started to fill up—just like it always used to. Normally, around that time we’d be tuning, rosining bows, sipping coffee, and getting mentally ready for the evening, to avoid tension and ensure a joyful vibe on stage. But this evening was completely different.
Half an hour before the concert, our old friends, former ensemble leaders, musician and dancer companions, and family members started to arrive—accompanied by a local TV reporter and camera crew.
We had no idea how to process what was happening. Where should we start? What should we think? Who should we turn to first? Who do we greet—or hug—first? It was an amazing experience. And terrifying. Both at the same time.
“These people have known us since we were kids. Some of them even changed our diapers. There’s no bullshitting or business-smiling here. You need to be present—NOW!” screamed our brains.
And while that was happening, we collectively forgot everything we’ve learned in the last decade about performing folk music. The concert… well, it showed. We messed up the gardon, stumbled through parts of our most well-rehearsed setlists, and mumbled our introductions like a troupe of nervous monkeys.
Luckily, the dance house that followed brought relief. It was full almost until the end—with old and new friends, familiar faces, and family.
We were especially happy to be joined by folk musicians from Hódmezővásárhely and Szeged:
Alex Szabó and Vili Rácz on viola, Feri Gyöngyösi on cello, Enikő Magyar, Bence Vörösmarty (our meeting deserves its own book—I’ll let you know when it’s done), Fanni Miklós on violin, and Ibolya Eszteró on double bass.
We had a fantastic time and are still deeply grateful to the people of Hódmezővásárhely for their warm welcome. 🙂